crap post.

title: crap post. (Jay sg fanclub is reaching 100 [members] soon.. heh heh..)

Well, you are definitely a girl's girl. Not only do you treasure all your friendships, you are almost self sacrificial when it comes to doing things for your gal pals. Be careful that you don't wear yourself out. Be kind to yourself. There have been cases of nice girls who try too hard to be good girls and in the end, they don't get the same treatment back. Trust us, the backlash is not pretty.

10 Clues Your Friend Is Bad News
If the below is true, it's time to lose this friend. She is no good for you.

1. She's defensive and terrible at accepting constructive criticism. You can never tell her if she does something wrong, because she will just snap back.

2. She loves to gossip about other people. If fact, that is all she ever does. She is probably talking about you when you aren't around.

3. She loves to get back at others. Don't double cross her of you'll find yourself in a bad place.

4. She lives by her own rules and expects you to live by them too. If you don't, she judges you for it.

5. She is obsessed with how she looks. Her hair must always be perfect. If she gets laughed at, all hell with break loose.

6. Me, me, me. Everything is about her. She asks you how your day is and starts talking about herself even before you answer her.

7.She gets snarly when you disagree with her. Remember, she thinks she is always right.

8. She never forgives. She also never ever forgets. She will always bring up that time in primary school when you made her upset.

9. You get the feeling that she is jealous of you. She gets sarcastic when you do well in school or if a boy takes notice of you.

10. She always puts you down or pins the blame on you. In fact, you tend to feel worse after talking or being with her. Friends should make us feel better, not worse. At least not every time.

Anti Mean-Girl Tactics

- Ignore her. Mean girls like attention so don't give them the time of the day to mock you. And most certainly, do not show any response to her mean tactics.

- Step up and stand up for yourself. If you know you have not done anything wrong, speak up. Use your mind and not your fists to fight back. It will soon be obvious to those around you that you are not the problem. It's ok to be afraid but don't let her beat you down.

- Let your friends, parents and teachers know what is going on. They may be able to give you some valuable advice or step in. Do not worry too much about whether they will make things worse- after all, adults have been there before.
(however, they dun certainly know the RIGHT way.. & some of them never grows up.. becareful of which adult you're talking to.. heh.)

- Respect and love yourself. Remember that you are a good person with good friends. When you feel that way about yourself, no one can hurt you or put you down.

- Be a good role model. A tooth for an eye will not get you far. Be nice and learn to understand why she treats others the way she does. Don't become like her. Be nice and learn to laugh together with your friends, and not at them.